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I seem to have fallen down this rabbit hole... let me attempt to summarise the situation:
3 and 4 are basically untangling the symmetry assumptions from the results of Anders Kock (Monads on Symmetric Monoidal Closed Categories and Strong Functors and Monoidal Monads), and would require careful checking but I've pretty much convinced myself they hold by skimming over the proofs and looking at where the assumptions are used.
In particular this means that not all monoidal monads are symmetric: that assumption would be equivalent to the assumption that all commutative monads are symmetrically strong. (That said I have no idea if the counterexample in the linked paper is correct.)